Halloween Housewarming

Family Halloween Portrait

I am not a fan of Halloween. Most everyone who knows me knows that. I stopped trick or treating when I was in fifth grade because I thought the whole holiday was contrived. 

But, last Saturday evening I went to a Halloween Housewarming Party and had a great time. I even dressed up--notionally I was Marc Anthony and I was going to the party with my Cleopatra. 

What a party--food, games, fun, and most of all family celebrating the excitement of a new house and a new home.

The Women in my Life

Friends. Wow, what friends were there to celebrate. The costumes were magnificent and demonstrated a high degree of creativity.

And there were new acquaintances. 

Maybe I will do more Halloween parties in the future and enjoy them more. 

-- Bob Doan, Elkridge, MD

Monday Musings - October 28, 2013

1. The end of October and Halloween in upon us! Four days to go.

2. A vehicle with this logo on it was in my driveway the other day. I wondered if I should be worried about going into the house.

3. I learned what graupel was the other day. A nice piece of trivia I could have lived without knowing I think. It might be a good word to know for scrabble.

4. Here is a scary item I read yesterday: 30 percent of Americans get their news from Facebook. And we wonder why we have so grossly uninformed people in America today. 

5. Well at least the World Series is exciting. It is tied 2-2 with only three games remaining. Game seven, if necessary, would be played  on Halloween!  Might keep some of the goblins off the streets.

6. Here is some interesting birthday trivia: On this date in 1955, Bill Gates was born. One year later, the former President of Iran, Mahmoud Ahmadinejad, (a/k/a Ahm-a-dinner-jacket) was born.

-- Bob Doan, Elkridge, MD

A Visit to the Pumpkin Patch

The Pumpkin Farm and Nicole

It is the season of the Great Pumpkin and Halloween is just around the corner. That meant that the time for our annual trek to the pumpkin farm in Davidsonville, MD was upon us. 

Yesterday was the day. Clear blue skies and moderate temperatures combined to make an idyllic day on the farm with the pumpkins. 

Jax: I Like it but I Want a Moon Pumpkin

There were, of course, pumpkins everywhere, but there was an incredible amount of fun as we charged through the corn stalk maze launching corn kernels at each other while running sneak attacks across the rows of corn. I admit, I had never done that before and ensuring that the other non-family members in the maze were not inadvertently attached added a sense of realism and fun to the game. 

Ethan: Is it the Great Pumpkin?"

We were a bit disappointed in the quality of the pumpkins in the field. Many were broken and rotting already. In fact, we did not purchase any large pumping, settling for a few small ones and some gourds. 

The Corn Maze

There was the obligatory posing on the straw bales for the annual photos--but with it being such a beautiful day, the posing was not a problem.

A great afternoon and fun memory it just makes me want to say: Happy Halloween!

-- Bob Doan, Elkridge, MD

No Pets makes No Sense

I stopped and looked at the sign posted prominently on the entrance to the rest stop building. Why must my beloved dog remain outside complicating my life when she is traveling with me? It makes no sense--none at all. After all, they let children into the building and we all know that they are far dirtier and more destructive than pets.

On my most recent sojourn, I discovered that most of the wineries in the Seneca Lake region of New York allow dogs to accompany their owners into the tasting rooms while sampling the fruit of the vine. Why must my dog remain outside at a rest stop where food is not being served? Or for that matter, why discriminate against pets anywhere--food or not? 

Pets are companions. I am sure that soon there will be a movement to ensure that dogs and cats are seat belted when traveling in a car--not only for their own protection but the protection of the driver and other occupants. I mean, who needs the family pet flying around the interior of the vehicle during an accident?

For now, I am contemplating some radical action to try to get these ridiculous laws and rules reversed. What would be the harm in allowing my dog into an establishment especially on an extremely hot or cold day?

We seem to spend a lot of time writing laws and making rules that have precious little hope of being enforced, why don't we begin to take some rules and laws off the books thereby restoring freedom of choice and begin enforcing personal responsibility?

Makayla rules!

-- Bob Doan, Elkridge, MD

My Second Favorite Rest Stop

I think it a bit odd that I have favorite rest stops along the highways I traverse. These are places where I pause to gather my wits during the hours of highway driving. My favorite rest stop is along I-95 shortly after entering Florida. "Welcome to the Sunshine State" the signs proclaim! Yeah. I really could use some sunshine right now.

My second favorite rest stop is no where near the first. It is along Route 15 a few miles after entering Pennsylvania from New York. It sits high atop a ridge overlooking a valley and a dam with a lake behind it. 

During the autumn, the area is especially pretty. The colorful trees surround the scene making it seem as if a painter had stopped and decorated the region for their own use. 

The small town in the valley below the dam is quaint and bucolic. I would like to visit there some day, when I am not feeling the stress of trying to drive more miles per hour than the speed limit allows. 

I am, it seems, always hurrying from one place to another with just enough time allotted for the trip and none available for the pleasantries of visiting places along the way which are more than a just few yards off the ribbon of macadam I am traveling. 

But this rest stop is a stop I must make. It slows and grounds me and makes me pause to enjoy the beauty of the region. 

I am thankful that it is there to slow me down and to break up my trip.

-- Bob Doan, Elkridge, MD

Chilly Gray Autumn Days

October 23, 2013
Gray and Chilly

Yesterday was one of those chilly, gray, autumn days that just makes me want to do nothing. I felt as if I could not  just do nothing except hang around and be a couch potato.

I noted that the leaves continue to remain valiantly attached to the trees, as if they can keep the inevitable from occurring. Yet they remain and for that I am glad. During my sojourn to upstate NY this past weekend I could see areas where the leaves have already made their way to the ground and the bare trees are evidence that autumn is transitioning into winter. Ugh!

Geranium on the Back Deck

Here in Maryland, my lawn remains green and in need of mowing. It was cold and rainy; hence, the mowing never happened. 

The gray skies just want to make me nestle under a big pile of  bed covers and let the world pass by. Unfortunately, it will not. The world keeps chasing after me despite my best efforts.

At least some color remains, until tonight when the first frost of the season is due to slide into my yard and transform the vibrant plants of summer into brown memories of the season past.

Life goes on--but the memories remain and sustain. 

-- Bob Doan, Elkridge, MD

Grapes and Wine

I am amazed how many different varieties of grapes are used to make wine.

Most people can name a few.

Just a few. The biggies are:

Cabernet Sauvignon
Pinot Noir
Merlot
Chardonnay
Riesling
Malbec
Petit Verdot
Cabernet Franc


But there are so many more. Including the ones above, I  found over 20 different grapes that I currently have represented in wines in my cellar. The additional ones include:

Barbera
Chambourcin
Chancellor
De Chaunac
Muscatel
Niagara
Norton
Pinot Grigio/Pinot Gris
Sangiovese
Sauvignon Blanc
Shiraz/Syrah
Tempranillo
Touriga Nacional
Valdiguie
Verdejo
Viura
Zinfandel

Others that I know I have tasted or even possessed include:

Barbarossa
Carmenere
Gamay
Grenache
Lambrusco
Nebbiolo
Petit Manseng
Tannat
Traminer

I likely missed a few in the list--but the point of the exercise for me was to review the different varieties of grapes that I have sampled and to realize that each grape and the wine it produces has unique qualities which when combined with the growing region and the skill of the wine maker produce very different wines.

Wines are like people. Each person is unique despite their ancestry. And like a good wine, hopefully we get better with age.

-- Bob Doan, Elkridge, MD

The Lowest of the Low

Of all of the horrific things I have had the unfortunate opportunity to read about in the news, a story I ran across yesterday really made my emotions boil.

It was about human trafficking in the UK (read England) but it is happening everywhere.

This one was especially stomach turning because it was about a young girl who was smuggled into Britain to have her organs harvested. Boldly enough, the article was titled: Girl smuggled into Britain to have her 'organs harvested'. I was appalled as the story unfolded about this being the first confirmed case of such an incident in the UK. But, the story reads, not likely the last nor even the only.

Another story states that there are 2.4 million victims of human trafficking worldwide. 

If we are looking for cause--here is one. I did not fully understand the magnitude of the problem. But the story I read about being trafficked for organ harvesting really caught my attention. I won't go down the mental road that the story took me--but, I will say, it really hit home with me that this stuff is real and real people are being hurt and even killed. Maybe the article resonated with me because it was about a young girl and I am the father of a daughter that I love very much.

I know we all thought that slavery and human trafficking had been abolished--but, sadly, it hasn't. Worse, it is happening in the U.S., too.

So, I'm sorry that this story isn't about the usual stuff I write about, it is not uplifting nor does it have a happy ending, but I urge you to read the two articles I linked and be disgusted enough to take action.

While we are struggling with government shutdowns and political infighting, millions of people worldwide are enslaved and dying. I offer this website from the FBI as a place for more information: FBI--Human Trafficking. 

-- Bob Doan, Elkridge, MD

Monday Musings - October 21, 2013

1. The World Series starts this week. Baseball will be drawing to a close with the end of the month.

2. By not traveling on a holiday weekend, I found open highways, light traffic, and record setting travel times. WooHoo! 

3. When you mow the lawns for the last time of the year, how do you know it is the last time?

4. It was 39 degrees this morning when I woke up here in Maryland. Who forgot to pay the heating bill?

5. I liked a statement that I heard about running a marathon: There is no way I'm going to run that far unless I'm being chased by a clown with a knife and there are margaritas at the finish line.

6. Life is made exciting by the pursuit of something that I don't have, but want--especially if I have to work hard for it.

7. Sometimes wanting is far better than having.

8. It is hard to say good-bye, especially when the parting was unexpected.


-- Bob Doan, Elkridge, MD

Cold Autumn Morning and The World Series

Autumn Tree with Obligatory
 Upstate NY Deer Target

It was 43 degrees outside as I woke this morning to greet another day. 

I was afraid there might be frost on the leaves, but at least that didn't happen. The day dawned bright, clear and crisp--but no frost. Yet!

The colors of the leaves on the trees continue to deepen and the excitement of the continuing foray into autumn continues. Soon hunting season will be upon the region and the thinning of the herd will begin.

Sunday's can be exciting with all of their promise and the expectation of adventure. My day will find me on the ribbon of highway homeward bound to prepare for another week of high activity.

Turning to sports--

Baseball is poised to begin its final chapter of the year. 

I was a bit disappointed that the World Series is going to be between the St Louis Cardinals (defending their crown) and the Boston Red Sox. While the match-up seems to be a no brainer, the teams tied for the best record in baseball during the regular season,  I would have hoped for almost any other two teams in the playoffs--like the Pittsburgh Pirates and the Detroit Tigers, for example.

Entry way to Ed Smith Stadium, Sarasota, FL

But I will watch the series because it is the final chapter of a baseball season that began eight months ago with pitchers and catchers reporting to Spring Training. The season ends as the Spring Training 2014 schedules are being published and I am planning my trip to Sarasota to enjoy time with the Orioles. It is the circle of baseball, I guess.

I never thought about it, but baseball spans all four seasons. Spring Training begins during the last weeks of Winter and continues through Spring and Summer and well into the first half of Autumn. Until Spring Training begins,  I will be watching Penguins hockey and suffering through what is at this juncture a mediocre Ravens season while waiting for the return of the warmth and the sun. 

-- Bob Doan, writing from Ithaca, NY