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Celebrating 49 Years Tequesta, FL August 9, 2024 |
Yesterday, Chris and I celebrated 49 years of marriage. No, it has not always been easy or smooth. But, we continue to respect and love each other and have even survived being together 24/7 since I retired. That may be the biggest accomplishment of all!
We took some time last evening to recount the events of our wedding day. August 9, 1975, was a stifling hot day in Ithaca, NY. Our ceremony was not until 7 PM in a church which was not air conditioned. But the sun coming through the windows was as beautiful as Chris had imagined it would be.
The fun of the day, however, began early. In the wee hours of the morning I dropped a window on my head letting my cat into my room from outdoors. Yes, I scratched my face in the process. In those days, living on the outskirts of Danby, NY, my cat would go out for the evening and sometime during the night she would appear on the porch roof at my second story window meowing to be allowed inside. There was a storm window behind the wooden frame window which had to be removed to open the screen and allow the cat inside. I guess, in my somewhat less than sober state after my bachelor party, I didn't manage the window well; it slipped and I tried to use my head to catch it. Not a good move.
But wait, there is more. Our car, a 1970 Ford LTD, needed a new muffler and tail pipe. No problem. I bought the parts and completed the installation in the yard. Well, turns out there was a problem because the tailpipe was about two inches too short and the hot exhaust went into the trunk when the car was not moving. When my best man took the car to fill it with gas for us, the contents of the trunk caught fire. So after the reception when I went looking for the car to go to our hotel, my Dad told me that I was taking his car on our honeymoon and not to ask questions. I learned the details upon our return.
But wait there is even more. We got to our hotel, which because of the late ceremony was just outside of Ithaca where the ceremony and reception were held, and nicely settled for our first night as a married couple when what happened? The entire wedding party crashed our door with pizza and we had an after party in our room. Someone squealed about where we were saying. To this day I do not know who it was as we had tried to keep it a secret.
The next morning, very tired, we did get on the road to where else other than Niagara Falls, Ontario, Canada, for our honeymoon. That all worked out well, the only exciting thing I remember from the honeymoon was watching a buffalo be born at the zoo. OK, there might have been some other things not suitable for mentioning here.
And so, from that less than smooth start, we have continued to overcome obstacles and celebrate successes for 49 years! We especially enjoy our three children, their spouses and their children. We are excited that our merry band of 11 is expected to grow to 12 come January. A dozen Doans, maybe the world is not ready for us.
-- Bob Doan, Tequesta, FL