Day 2, and it begins

 I realized this morning that having Christmas and New Year's fall on a Thursday really helps people focus on the holidays and take maybe 5 holiday days off, two weeks in a row!

How cool is that?

Chris and I just hung out yesterday and enjoyed the first day of the new year. 

The temperatures are warming and South Florida will see 70s again today. That means that I should be able to get out on the streets with my new biking gear. I was gifted a new bright orange biking helmet and a radar-camera for tracking vehicles as they approach me from the rear. 

I am excited to try them both out. 

I ride a lot on the streets and while I have a rearview mirror, sometimes I get surprised--I hate surprises. 

My new helmet has lights, turn signals, and is wired for bluetooth connection to my phone. My only concern is about how many bluetooth connections my phone can support at one time. I need to try all of the gear out to see. 

I have to admit that I was very disappointed by the outcome of the Sugar Bowl game last evening. It got a bit sloppy at the end and Georgia blew a 4th quarter lead and ultimately lost. I guess there is next year. 

It is time to get 2026 started.

-- Bob Doan, Tequesta, FL

New Year's Day 2026

 Happy New Year 2026

Palm Tree Across the Street
Tequesta, FL
December 31, 2025

The old year has passed and the new arrived. 

We will have to see where the new year takes us. 

It was a long day. We arrived home early yesterday morning from Baltimore and we were also able to say good-bye to the day and celebrate the new year's arrival at midnight. 

I was excited to see the palm tree outside of the front door against a blue clear sky. It reminded me that I was again in South Florida, even though the morning temperatures were in the 40s. I know it will warm up and that, unlike places further north, we will not be dealing with any snow or ice to start the new year. 

We enjoyed a New Year's Eve dinner with friends and then it was back to the house for some after dinner adult beverages. After they departed, Chris and I watched the final installment of Stranger Things Season 5. It had a bit of a tear jerker ending, officially I guess they call it an emotional. The series has been being produced since 2016, so it had been around awhile. It is hard to believe that it is over, but it needed to be complete. 

Tonight, we will be watching College Football Playoffs. 

Well, Happy New Year. 

-- Bob Doan, Tequesta, FL

Crashing the Party

 

Blue Sky and Sun
Odenton, MD
December 29, 2025

The biggest party night of the year is tomorrow night. Sometimes I can't tell if we are partying to cast off the year behind us or for the hope of a better year ahead. No matter, there are likely more of us out there just for the chance to party. 

Chris and I expect to be awake for the New York City ball drop tomorrow night, but we will be arriving back at our home on New Year's Eve after the flight out of Baltimore later today. So tomorrow will be a long day as we celebrate both the day's arrival and the year's end. In retrospect, I'm not sure why I booked an evening flight, but I did and I guess I have to own it. Our trusty car is waiting for us in long-term parking and if we don't check bags we should be home about 40 minutes after we land at PBI. 

I took the rather uninspiring image at the top of the item because yesterday was the first time that I needed to wear my sunglasses outside in almost a week. The overcast skies had set in and I was concerned that I might not see the sun again until New Year's Eve in South Florida. Thankfully, that will not be the case as it is supposed to be a bright, partly sunny, and cold day. At least it will be sunny, but the projected high of 33 degrees is a bit too cold for me. 

It is going to be cold in Tequesta when we arrive. The projected high for the day is only 65 degrees and it will be about 50 degrees when we arrive tonight. What happened to the 80s? I guess I will need to wear a sweater on the plane.

Travel days can be a real pain! But, party on!

-- Bob Doan, Odenton, MD

Christmas Village

Overview of the Snow Village Display
Glen Burnie, MD
November 30, 2025

 While visiting with Patrick, Jen, and Beck last evening, I had the opportunity to get a last look at their Snow Village display. 

Patrick does a masterful job creating the display and I learned last evening that he prefers the village pieces to the more rural settings of farmhouses and barns. They have a game they play consisting of hiding pink flamingos in the village for keen-eyed observers to find and re-hide. 

Snow Village Detail
Glen Bunie, MD
December 27, 2025

Christmas, which was just three days ago, is far from over, despite many people’s belief that it has concluded for the year. Retailers are in the midst of the after-Christmas sales, attempting to clear out their remaining stock before the 2026 models begin arriving. I’ve been eyeing an excessively priced TV that hasn’t yet gone on sale, but since it’s the 2025 version, I’m hoping the arrival of the 2026 models will provide some price relief.

I would like to say that I am enjoying the winter weather, I am not! But, I am mindful that it could be worse. My sister who resides in western New York State reported 22 inches of snow on the ground yesterday. That is 22 good reasons not to live there. The Snow Village is fun to look at and to create every year, but, thankfully, the snow is not real and the pieces actually are warm despite the wintery appearance. 

I am looking forward to returning home to warm South Florida next week for New Years and then off on a cruise to the Bahamas for a few days. But until then, we have more people to visit and things to do despite the cold.

-- Bob Doan, Odenton. MD

The day after Christmas

 Happy Boxing Day

I learned about the day after Christmas when I was in High School while working part-time after school at a men's clothing store.  The day after Christmas was, in this store, the busiest day of the year. The store was swamped with returns and exchanges not to mention people anxious to spend their Christmas money. 

I do not recall the store conducting an after-Christmas sale on the day after Christmas. Usually that was a bit later. But on the sales floor, we were swamped. It was total anarchy from opening at 9 AM until closing at 5 PM, unless, as it is this year, the day after Christmas was a Friday and then the store was open until 9 PM.

My Dad was a manager at the store and at the end of the day we would walk, exhausted, to his car to head home. We did a lot of father-son bonding during the short couple of years that I worked at the store. It is a good memory. 

I never knew that the day after Christmas was also Boxing Day. I only learned of Boxing Day some years later. To my knowledge, American society has never given a name to the day after Christmas, unlike Black Friday which as we know is the day after Thanksgiving. 

That clothing store is long gone. It is just a shell of itself on Cayuga Street in Ithaca. I likely will never pass by it again, but I remember working on the sales floor as well as pressing clothes after the tailors had altered them, washing the windows, straightening stock, shoveling snow, breaking ice, vacuuming every night, taking out the garbage, and doing whatever the owner thought needed to be done. 

But I also remember my Dad. And the day after Christmas.

-- Bob Doan, Odenton, MD

Happy Christmas 2025

 

Family Pajama Christmas Eve Brunch
Glen Burnie, MD
December 24, 2025

Christmas Eve was a fun-filled family day and Christmas morning has likewise been fun with family.

Marley Creek
Glen Burnie, MD
December 24, 2025

We did something different for the traditional Christmas Eve brunch by having each family arrive in pajamas. It was something fun and added a new twist to our gathering. The family posed for the annual picture still in their pajamas. After most of the others departed, Chris and I stayed for a while and enjoyed time with Baby Beck, who was fighting a cold he acquired at day care, but he was in a remarkably good mood and enjoyed a late afternoon walk down to the water.

The day was pleasantly warm and the walk to Marley Creek was very nice. The sunset was stunning.

Chris, Finn, and Me
Odenton, MD
December 25, 2025

Christmas Day dawned continuing the warmer trend. While not the 80's of the South Carolina beaches, it was still very comfortable and nice. We enjoyed a sumptuous Christmas breakfast of waffles and then descended upon the Christmas tree and the gifts. Santa was very generous. I guess I was a good boy this year, and why he doesn't know won't hurt him!

Now, it is time for games and fun as we relax and enjoy the day.

My thoughts and prayers go out to all of those in need and I am keeping our military personnel and civilian first-responders in the forefront of my mind. I know there are so many unsung heroes on the frontlines, whether the front is here in America or in some place around the world. 

May you find peace and joy wherever this Christmas Day finds you.

-- Bob Doan, Odenton, MD

Christmas Eve 2025

 Happy Christmas Eve

For our family, the festivities begin this morning and continue through tomorrow. 

It is exciting this year with a new grandson who is experiencing his first Christmas. Actually, it was a lot of fun shopping for him. Who can possibly resist buying trucks and tractors for an almost one-year old? 

It was very easy to get pulled into the noise and hustle this season, but we resisted. Chris and I managed to get our Christmas cards addressed and mailed in a more relaxed manner and although we have had an aggressive travel schedule, we are looking forward to the next couple of days. We even have the presents wrapped. Well, I may have to wrap an additional gift we bought for Beck, the youngest grandson, yesterday. 

Now, it's time for family. 

I don't expect to listen to or watch the news until Friday. 

White Christmas? 

Thankfully, no! I am looking forwards to the projected high of 51 degrees for both today and tomorrow! Maybe snow on Friday. 

Of course, not everyone can be with their families on this holiday season. I am remembering the first responders, those working shift work, and of course our military personnel across the world and here at home and send them a special thank you for their service!

May the peace and joy of Christmas be with you today and throughout the New Year.

-- Bob Doan, Odenton, MD

A Great Day for Flying

Route 301 Bridge over the Potomac
Dahlgren, VA
December 22, 2025

 The trip north on a Southwest flight was, believe it or not, enjoyable. Yes, the airports were jammed with holiday travelers. There was even a line for baggage checkin at the Palm Beach International Southwest counters. I've never been in a line there before. TSA moved passengers through security screening in an expeditious manner and we enjoyed some time in the lounge before arriving at the gate about five minutes before boarding began. Actually, the pre-boarders were already being assisted down the jetway as we took our place in line. 

Our Flight Route
Southwest 2489 PBI-BWI
December 22, 2025

Our flight route took us out over the Atlantic and we went feet-dry over the Carolinas with Cape Fear in sight. It was one of the clearest flying days that I can remember and the sight of the coast from Cape Fear running to the north was stunning. The strip of sandy beach sandwiched between the spit of land and the ocean was very evident all the way to the horizon. I failed to take a picture of it for posterity, but I later took an image as we passed by Dahlgren, VA, and the Route 301 bridge crossing the Potomac River that I have had the pleasure of traversing on multiple occasions.

The jet was completely full, but the 2h 25m flight was still enjoyable. The only disturbing part was that we arrived in Baltimore 15 minutes early, but had to wait on the tarmac for the gate to open for 20 minutes. That meant we actually arrived at the gate 5 minutes late. I do not enjoy when that happens--and then, there was about another 10 minute wait until the cabin door was opened and we could begin the deplaning process. I am glad I did not have a connecting flight. 

Did I mention that there was no internet service? That was an annoyance, but fortunately, I did not have anything worthwhile to work on and so I sat back and enjoyed the flight crammed into a middle seat so that Chris could enjoy the window seat. We try to take an aisle and a window seat leaving the middle empty and hoping no one is anxious to sit between us, but with the jet being full I resigned myself to the middle seat even though I had an "A" boarding pass. I guess all of that goes away next month when Southwest begins assigning seats. 

I really cannot expect much more when traveling during the busy holiday season. I guess I am now an official traveler holiday statistic.

-- Bob Doan, Odenton, MD

Enjoying the Lights at Night

Happy Solstice

Winter or Summer Begins

 

The shortest day of the year for the Northern Hemisphere and the longest for the Southern Hemisphere has arrived!

We will be enjoying 10H 29M of sunlight today in Tequesta. For our family near Baltimore, they will enjoy only 9H 27M of sunlight! Conversely, in Sydney, NSW, Australia, they will enjoy 14H 27M of beautiful Summer sunshine.

Christmas Lights Along the Street
Port St Lucie, FL
December 20, 2025

Chris and I were in Port St Lucie last evening for dinner. It was fun being in a different neighborhood as darkness fell and the Christmas lights illuminated the street. This particular street was fully decorated, there may have been only one house not displaying festive holiday decorations. A huge contrast from our boring condo community where we didn't even put lights up on the welcome sign.  

Dinner and the conversation during the evening was fabulous. I was advised that I may have monopolized the discussion a bit, but we had a very deep discussion about the Netflix production, House of Dynamite. Finnegan even enjoyed being around his favorite cat friend, Tigger. 

A great holiday evening and a very nice way to celebrate the arrival of the Solstice.

-- Bob Doan, Tequesta, FL

Nighttime Reflection

 We enjoyed a great dinner last evening with friends. It was a festive holiday dinner complete with great conversation in advance of our upcoming travels. Their house was very festively decorated for the seasons. 

I spent time out on the lanai for a while after sunset taking in the scene across the lake. The dark lake was flat and reflected the lights of the houses on the far shore like an impressionist painting. The palms on the near shore provided some depth to the image. 

The South Florida evening was perfect. It was the kind of evening that I need to remember during the Dog Days when the temperatures do not fall below the mid-80s and sunset in after 8 PM. But, for now, I enjoy the evenings and look forward to them through at least February. Next week, we return to the Maryland winter. 

-- Bob Doan, Tequesta, FL

It was COLD

Under the Tiki Hut at Tiki52
Tequesta, FL
December 16, 2025

 I know that it is hard to believe, but it gets cold here in South Florida. Last evening, Chris and I headed off to what was billed as a Country Style Christmas celebration complete with Line Dancing. It was being held at our favorite restaurant, Tiki52. 

The restaurant was festively decorated and a dance area had been raked in the sand to support the line dancing. We were able to get a front row table because we arrived early, which was really at our normal time. 

The wind coming off the ICW made it seem colder than the actual temperature. The temperature started at 71 degrees, by the time we departed it was only 69 and we were cold. I had dressed appropriately in jeans and a sweater, but still, I got cold. It was weird!

We had fun, but although the festivities were supposed to begin at 5:30 PM, there were problems with the sound system and the music was delayed. We waited about an hour before deciding that we were done eating, drinking, and we were cold. So despite that we were having an enjoyable time, we departed. It just got to be too cold. 

So yes, it gets cold here in South Florida, even at 69 degrees!

-- Bob Doan, Tequesta, FL

Christmas Movies: The Next 9

 Tis the season for Christmas Movies. 

Image from Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer

There are so many movies out there that Chris and I began watching the movies before Thanksgiving this year so that we would not go into complete Christmas overload. 

I ranked my top 10 all time Christmas movies last year. I reviewed the what I wrote and stand by it. I expect to complete viewing each of the movies in my Top 10 today or tomorrow by watching The Holiday (2006) and then It's a Wonderful Life (1946)

I realized that in reviewing the list that I had forgotten to consider one of my true favorites, a made for TV movie, Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer (1964). No, it doesn't crack my top 10, but I realized that I may need to continue into my next ranked favorite Christmas movies. 

And so, here are my next 9 favorite Christmas movies. Since I had a tie at 10 last year, I'm beginning at 12.

12. Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer (1964)

13. Red One (2024)

14. A Christmas Story (1983), Yes I enjoy the movie

15. The Christmas Chronicles 2 (2020)

16. The Claus Family (2020)

17. Home Alone 2: Lost in New York (1992)

18. The Santa Clause 2 (2002)

19. The Knight Before Christmas (2019)

20. White Christmas (1954)

And there it is. My top twenty Christmas movie list is complete. Obvious absences are Elf and any of the Grinch movies, although I do enjoy the Boris Karloff version of How the Grinch Stole Christmas, but it was a short TV show and not a full movie. 

Happy Watching!

-- Bob Doan, Tequesta, FL

Decorating the Season

 

Christmas Flamingos
Tequesta, FL
December 12, 2025

Out on my bike, yesterday, I was impressed with the explosion of Christmas decorations since my last trip around the village before Thanksgiving. The day was cool, almost too cool, when I started out, but I soon warmed and began to enjoy the ride. I was happy that I did not feel the effects of two weeks of not riding. 

Repurposed Halloween Decoration
Tequesta, FL
December 12, 2025

Of course, one of my favorite yard decorations was of two flamingos with Santa hats. I have a fondness for flamingo yard decorations.

And then there is the repurposed Halloween decoration that was modified for Thanksgiving and now sports a Christmas decor. They definitely get their use out of it as it has been in the yard since September. 

I think I prefer the less is best policy for Christmas decorations. I don't like the yards where it appears that Christmas puked. There are too many decorations to enjoy and they are placed without a theme in mind. One other observation, I am seeing fewer inflatable decorations here in South Florida than I did in Maryland. I'm not sure why.

The march towards Christmas continues unabated. 12 Days until the Big Day!

-- Bob Doan, Tequesta, FL

All I want for Christmas . . .

Christmas Light Adorned Yacht
Tequesta, FL
December 10, 2025

 Christmas music is everywhere. Chris and I listened to a few hours of Christmas music during our drive south earlier this week. It provided something different than the usual assortment of songs and artists to whom we listen.

We tend to listen to two genres of Christmas music: Country and Christian. The pop Christmas songs and the updated renditions are not that interesting for us. 

My least favorite Christmas song continues to be "I'll be Home for Christmas," which elicits an almost immediate channel change. What a depressing song for such a joyous time of year. 

One song that I very much enjoy, because it is only two years old and not played constantly, is "All I Want for Christmas is a Real Good Tan," by Kenny Chesney. I like the sentiment and it makes me smile. 

One verse expresses my white Christmas sentiment:

Well everybody's praying for a Christmas so white,

come to think about it, that'd be alright,

as long as it's sand and not snow on the ground,

and everyday our skin gets a little more brown,

We'll string some lights in a coconut tree,

I'll rub some oil on you, and you can rub some on me..

Pelican on the Piling
Tiki52, Tequesta, FL
December 10, 2025

While we were enjoying dinner at Tiki52 the other evening, I saw Christmas lights adorning a yacht. I had to think, that would be a great Christmas gift, a Christmas light adorned yacht! It was good to be dining outside in shorts and a short-sleeve shirt. Back in the land of warm!

What I want for Christmas is one of the toughest questions I am forced to answer. Unlike a good politician, I cannot come up with a redirect or a long-winded way of saying nothing and making the questioner feel like they received a response with which they can work. I am happy and content with few needs or wants. 

I have, however, a very specific answer for the question this year, but I am not going to share it. Those who know me probably understand what that might be and it is not something that can be purchased, wrapped and delivered. But that, really, is my only want for Christmas 2025. 

“The Joy of brightening other lives, bearing each others’ burdens, easing each other’s loads and supplanting empty hearts and lives with generous gifts becomes for us the magic of the holidays.” –W. C. Jones

-- Bob Doan, Tequesta, FL

Cold and Snow!

Scene off the Back Deck
Odenton, MD
December 5, 2025

Happy St Nicholas Day

 

It was reported yesterday that Maryland received snow during December for the first time in five years!

And it had to be when Chris and I were visiting. It is cold! The temperature has not been above freezing for almost 48 hours. Although, today is supposed to climb into the 40s. 

We were quite certain that snowy weather was on its way as we drove back from Doylestown, PA, on Thursday evening. The road crews were diligently working to prepare the roads for the anticipated slippery conditions. Initially, I had anticipated that the snow would be light and short-lived, but to my surprise, it persists even this morning.

We are currently planning our return journey to Florida for Monday. The weather forecast predicts cold temperatures, with a low of 28 degrees, but we should make it south before the next storm. We have thoroughly enjoyed our time here, with several more activities scheduled for today and tomorrow. However, I am eagerly looking forward to the warmth of South Florida once again! Although I grew up in Upstate New York, I believe I developed a fondness for the mild winter temperatures of South Florida during my time at the University of Miami.

There is a certain satisfaction in not being slapped with an icy breeze when stepping outside or freezing my hands while clearing the truck windows. Which begs the question, Where did I leave my lone remaining ice scraper? I couldn’t find it in the truck yesterday. 

-- Bob Doan, Odenton, MD

Christmas Tree Hunt

Arriving Wolfe's Pine Valley Farms
Sykesville, MD
November 29, 2025

  I participated in a ritual yesterday that I hadn’t engaged in for many years. Chris and I joined Nicole and her family in hunting for their Christmas tree. It was a delightful experience that I had completely forgotten. For many years, we’ve used artificial Christmas trees because I’m allergic to real ones.  

Looking Down the Rows of Trees
Wolfe's Pine Valley Farms
Sykesville, MD
November 29, 2025

We headed out relatively early to Wolfe's Pine Valley Farms, an hour away, to find this year's tree. It was cold, a mere 28 degrees, as we drove off and headed out into the country. The drive to the country was something I had forgotten. The scenery quickly changes from houses and stores to fields and trees. Despite the cold, it was a most beautiful day. Arriving at the farms, I was in awe of the thousands of trees I could see in the distance and across the hills. The smell of fresh pine was everywhere as were the hundreds of other families out on their own Christmas Tree hunt!

How Many People Does it Take
 to cut Down a Christmas Tree?
Wolfe's Pine Valley Farms
Sykesville, MD
November 29, 2025

Finding parking was no easy task, but in the end we were extremely lucky to find spots near where we wanted to search for the 2025 Christmas Tree. The farm is divided into fields of trees by type and size. We walked down a hill to the field containing the type of tree that we were hunting. I joked about being "very, very quiet because we were hunting Christmas Trees," but the joke was lost on most of the family who do not remember Elmer Fudd. After a while, and after becoming separated and lost amongst the rows of trees, this year's lucky Christmas Tree contestant was selected. 

Heading out of the Forest
Wolfe's Pine Valley Farms
Sykesville, MD
November 29, 2025

We had some fun felling the tree. I remarked about how many people does it take to cut down a Christmas tree? It was determined that the correct answer was at least four. One to cut, two to hold the tree, and one to three to supervise.

Once the tree was free of its roots, the process of carrying the tree out began. In olden times, I remember just dragging the tree home. But then the ground was covered with snow and the dragging process helped remove the loose needles and other stuff that had accumulated in the tree. Yesterday, given that we were accompanied by two strong young men, the tree was carried. We could have secured a cart to carry it out on, but why? 

From Field to Home
Odenton, MD
November 29, 2025

We took the tree to the central area where it was shaken to get rid of the loose needles and other stuff, tied with string, paid for, and then loaded onto the truck for the trip home.

Once at the house, the tree was installed in a stand, watered, and then, after letting the branches drop for a couple hours, decorated. 

The 2025 Haslup Family Christmas Tree is absolutely beautiful and ready for the ensuing holiday celebrations. It was a great day and I was reminded about how much fun it can be to conduct a successful Christmas Tree hunt. It  was not at all like I remember from when I was a kid, trudging through the snow for hours and finally, once I was totally frozen, Mom would select a tree and Dad would cut it down, then let me drag it down the hillside to home. 

-- Bob Doan, Odenton, MD

Black Friday in the Rear View Mirror

 We successfully survived Black Friday. My only foray into the mass of humanity enjoying the day after the feast was a quick trip to a store to replenish our adult beverages in advance of the Georgia vs Georgia Tech game. My experience was relatively tame, the strip mall to which I journeyed was mostly devoid of shoppers, unlike the Wednesday before Thanksgiving when the parking lot was overflowing with vehicles. 

Axis & Allies on Black Friday
Odenton, MD
ovember 29, 2025

The Axis & Allies game was a rousing success. Six competitors worked through World War 2 and the final conclusion was a narrow victory for the Axis. I was charged with playing Italy. We played until the kick-off for the Georgia vs Georgia Tech football game and had to declare a winner. 

For the Axis & Allies purists, it should be noted that the version of the game being played is not the same as the version I posted the image of in yesterday's blog. That version only provided for 5 players and because we had 6 combatants we made a late change to the version on the table. 

For the shoppers in the crowd, it was a very successful day in the trenches. They reported large crowds of excited shoppers anxious to collect the Black Friday deals. I have not yet been so motivated to actually shop either at brick & mortar stores or online. Perhaps today. 

-- Bob Doan, Odenton, MD

Axis & Allies Day 2025

 Black Friday is Axis & Allies Day. The guys gather around the dining room table to determine who has the best strategy for winning WW2, while the women-folk head off into the shopping maelstrom that is Black Friday. We always hope they return alive and with our credit cards not maxed out!

I think it is far more enjoyable to stand around the gaming table, consuming Thanksgiving leftovers and plotting my next move. The game takes hours, but today we have a hard stop time of 3:30 PM. We have to be in place to watch the Georgia-Georgia Tech game. Go DAWGS!

Axis & Allies is definitely a holiday tradition. I cannot even begin to remember how many years we have been playing the game on Black Friday. My first recorded game day was in 2010, but that blog entry suggests we had been playing it annually and so, I really do not know how long we have gathered around the table to strategize and try to secure lasting peace in Europe on the day after Thanksgiving. 

Just to document my frustration after the Thanksgiving Day NFL games, the Ravens unfortunately lost the evening game last night to the Bengals, with a score of 14-32. The game was so terrible that I thankfully went to bed at halftime, when the score was 7-12, and was fortunate to miss the even uglier second half. The Ravens had the chance to take control of the AFC North with a win, but they chose not to show up for the game. The team needs to conduct a serious soul-searching and perhaps consider hiring new offensive and defensive coordinators. 

-- Bob Doan, Odenton, MD

Thanksgiving 2025

 Happy Thanksgiving!

Sunset at Marley Creek
Glen Burnie, MD
November 26, 2025

The morning dawned 37 degrees cold and mostly clear. We have big plans for family activities all day.

Last evening I was able to stand on the shores of Marley Creek as the sun was setting. I was moved by the American flag flying on one of the pilings. I had just heard of the shooting of two National Guardsmen in D.C., and I was disturbed by the upheaval in civility that has gripped our nation. There are too many people speaking hateful words and inciting people to violence. And, sadly, much of that hateful rhetoric begins with the leader of our nation. 

I am thankful that I am an American and that I devoted my entire working adult life to this great country. I am thankful for the millions of others who, like me, are tired of hearing the constant diatribe of hate-filled words and are searching to find peace amid the noise of the world. 

I offer this prayer for Thanksgiving.

Gracious God, this Thanksgiving, I lift up a special prayer of gratitude for the precious gift of family and friends. Thank You for the love that binds us, the memories we share, and the support we offer one another. I’m grateful for laughter-filled gatherings, for shoulders to cry on, and for the unconditional acceptance found in these relationships. Bless each one, Lord, with Your peace, Your protection, and Your provision. For those facing challenges, be their strength. For those celebrating joys, multiply their happiness. May our bonds grow stronger, rooted in Your love, and may we always be grateful for the beautiful tapestry of relationships You’ve woven in our lives. (50 powerful prayers)

-- Bob Doan, Odenton, MD

Being Watched

 

Happy Thanksgiving Eve

Thanksgiving is primarily recognized as a uniquely American holiday, celebrated on the fourth Thursday of November. This holiday has its roots in early 17th-century harvest festivals, particularly the 1621 feast shared by the Pilgrims and the Wampanoag people in Plymouth, Massachusetts. (Chat GPT)

From Atop the Fridge
Odenton, MD
November 26, 2025

Animals can become the spotlight during holidays as they make themselves either scarce or become a nuisance during the holidays. We are presently dealing with three dogs and two tuxedo cats. And I have to say, the cats have become the stars of the season for their antics. 

The cats like high places. I caught this one, named Merlin, observing the activity in the kitchen from atop the refrigerator. Merlin had staked out the vantage point to keep track of the people and the dogs that were active. 

For tomorrow the cats and dogs will be confined to rooms so as not to interfere with the holiday activities. I will miss being watched from above. 

Tomorrow also signifies the end of the season of the turkey and I’ll have to store away my sole remaining reminder of the season when we return home to Florida. Chris allowed one turkey to remain as a reminder that Christmas can only officially begin when Santa arrives during the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade in New York City. That’s when the real Christmas rush begins, as we indulge in a festive feast and become utterly engrossed in the football games. 

My wish is that we can remind ourselves of our blessings and give thanks for them and to also give thanks for the friends, family, and acquaintances that make our lives meaningful. 

-- Bob Doan, Odenton, MD