Christmas Tree Hunt

Arriving Wolfe's Pine Valley Farms
Sykesville, MD
November 29, 2025

  I participated in a ritual yesterday that I hadn’t engaged in for many years. Chris and I joined Nicole and her family in hunting for their Christmas tree. It was a delightful experience that I had completely forgotten. For many years, we’ve used artificial Christmas trees because I’m allergic to real ones.  

Looking Down the Rows of Trees
Wolfe's Pine Valley Farms
Sykesville, MD
November 29, 2025

We headed out relatively early to Wolfe's Pine Valley Farms, an hour away, to find this year's tree. It was cold, a mere 28 degrees, as we drove off and headed out into the country. The drive to the country was something I had forgotten. The scenery quickly changes from houses and stores to fields and trees. Despite the cold, it was a most beautiful day. Arriving at the farms, I was in awe of the thousands of trees I could see in the distance and across the hills. The smell of fresh pine was everywhere as were the hundreds of other families out on their own Christmas Tree hunt!

How Many People Does it Take
 to cut Down a Christmas Tree?
Wolfe's Pine Valley Farms
Sykesville, MD
November 29, 2025

Finding parking was no easy task, but in the end we were extremely lucky to find spots near where we wanted to search for the 2025 Christmas Tree. The farm is divided into fields of trees by type and size. We walked down a hill to the field containing the type of tree that we were hunting. I joked about being "very, very quiet because we were hunting Christmas Trees," but the joke was lost on most of the family who do not remember Elmer Fudd. After a while, and after becoming separated and lost amongst the rows of trees, this year's lucky Christmas Tree contestant was selected. 

Heading out of the Forest
Wolfe's Pine Valley Farms
Sykesville, MD
November 29, 2025

We had some fun felling the tree. I remarked about how many people does it take to cut down a Christmas tree? It was determined that the correct answer was at least four. One to cut, two to hold the tree, and one to three to supervise.

Once the tree was free of its roots, the process of carrying the tree out began. In olden times, I remember just dragging the tree home. But then the ground was covered with snow and the dragging process helped remove the loose needles and other stuff that had accumulated in the tree. Yesterday, given that we were accompanied by two strong young men, the tree was carried. We could have secured a cart to carry it out on, but why? 

From Field to Home
Odenton, MD
November 29, 2025

We took the tree to the central area where it was shaken to get rid of the loose needles and other stuff, tied with string, paid for, and then loaded onto the truck for the trip home.

Once at the house, the tree was installed in a stand, watered, and then, after letting the branches drop for a couple hours, decorated. 

The 2025 Haslup Family Christmas Tree is absolutely beautiful and ready for the ensuing holiday celebrations. It was a great day and I was reminded about how much fun it can be to conduct a successful Christmas Tree hunt. It  was not at all like I remember from when I was a kid, trudging through the snow for hours and finally, once I was totally frozen, Mom would select a tree and Dad would cut it down, then let me drag it down the hillside to home. 

-- Bob Doan, Odenton, MD

Black Friday in the Rear View Mirror

 We successfully survived Black Friday. My only foray into the mass of humanity enjoying the day after the feast was a quick trip to a store to replenish our adult beverages in advance of the Georgia vs Georgia Tech game. My experience was relatively tame, the strip mall to which I journeyed was mostly devoid of shoppers, unlike the Wednesday before Thanksgiving when the parking lot was overflowing with vehicles. 

Axis & Allies on Black Friday
Odenton, MD
ovember 29, 2025

The Axis & Allies game was a rousing success. Six competitors worked through World War 2 and the final conclusion was a narrow victory for the Axis. I was charged with playing Italy. We played until the kick-off for the Georgia vs Georgia Tech football game and had to declare a winner. 

For the Axis & Allies purists, it should be noted that the version of the game being played is not the same as the version I posted the image of in yesterday's blog. That version only provided for 5 players and because we had 6 combatants we made a late change to the version on the table. 

For the shoppers in the crowd, it was a very successful day in the trenches. They reported large crowds of excited shoppers anxious to collect the Black Friday deals. I have not yet been so motivated to actually shop either at brick & mortar stores or online. Perhaps today. 

-- Bob Doan, Odenton, MD

Axis & Allies Day 2025

 Black Friday is Axis & Allies Day. The guys gather around the dining room table to determine who has the best strategy for winning WW2, while the women-folk head off into the shopping maelstrom that is Black Friday. We always hope they return alive and with our credit cards not maxed out!

I think it is far more enjoyable to stand around the gaming table, consuming Thanksgiving leftovers and plotting my next move. The game takes hours, but today we have a hard stop time of 3:30 PM. We have to be in place to watch the Georgia-Georgia Tech game. Go DAWGS!

Axis & Allies is definitely a holiday tradition. I cannot even begin to remember how many years we have been playing the game on Black Friday. My first recorded game day was in 2010, but that blog entry suggests we had been playing it annually and so, I really do not know how long we have gathered around the table to strategize and try to secure lasting peace in Europe on the day after Thanksgiving. 

Just to document my frustration after the Thanksgiving Day NFL games, the Ravens unfortunately lost the evening game last night to the Bengals, with a score of 14-32. The game was so terrible that I thankfully went to bed at halftime, when the score was 7-12, and was fortunate to miss the even uglier second half. The Ravens had the chance to take control of the AFC North with a win, but they chose not to show up for the game. The team needs to conduct a serious soul-searching and perhaps consider hiring new offensive and defensive coordinators. 

-- Bob Doan, Odenton, MD

Thanksgiving 2025

 Happy Thanksgiving!

Sunset at Marley Creek
Glen Burnie, MD
November 26, 2025

The morning dawned 37 degrees cold and mostly clear. We have big plans for family activities all day.

Last evening I was able to stand on the shores of Marley Creek as the sun was setting. I was moved by the American flag flying on one of the pilings. I had just heard of the shooting of two National Guardsmen in D.C., and I was disturbed by the upheaval in civility that has gripped our nation. There are too many people speaking hateful words and inciting people to violence. And, sadly, much of that hateful rhetoric begins with the leader of our nation. 

I am thankful that I am an American and that I devoted my entire working adult life to this great country. I am thankful for the millions of others who, like me, are tired of hearing the constant diatribe of hate-filled words and are searching to find peace amid the noise of the world. 

I offer this prayer for Thanksgiving.

Gracious God, this Thanksgiving, I lift up a special prayer of gratitude for the precious gift of family and friends. Thank You for the love that binds us, the memories we share, and the support we offer one another. I’m grateful for laughter-filled gatherings, for shoulders to cry on, and for the unconditional acceptance found in these relationships. Bless each one, Lord, with Your peace, Your protection, and Your provision. For those facing challenges, be their strength. For those celebrating joys, multiply their happiness. May our bonds grow stronger, rooted in Your love, and may we always be grateful for the beautiful tapestry of relationships You’ve woven in our lives. (50 powerful prayers)

-- Bob Doan, Odenton, MD

Being Watched

 

Happy Thanksgiving Eve

Thanksgiving is primarily recognized as a uniquely American holiday, celebrated on the fourth Thursday of November. This holiday has its roots in early 17th-century harvest festivals, particularly the 1621 feast shared by the Pilgrims and the Wampanoag people in Plymouth, Massachusetts. (Chat GPT)

From Atop the Fridge
Odenton, MD
November 26, 2025

Animals can become the spotlight during holidays as they make themselves either scarce or become a nuisance during the holidays. We are presently dealing with three dogs and two tuxedo cats. And I have to say, the cats have become the stars of the season for their antics. 

The cats like high places. I caught this one, named Merlin, observing the activity in the kitchen from atop the refrigerator. Merlin had staked out the vantage point to keep track of the people and the dogs that were active. 

For tomorrow the cats and dogs will be confined to rooms so as not to interfere with the holiday activities. I will miss being watched from above. 

Tomorrow also signifies the end of the season of the turkey and I’ll have to store away my sole remaining reminder of the season when we return home to Florida. Chris allowed one turkey to remain as a reminder that Christmas can only officially begin when Santa arrives during the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade in New York City. That’s when the real Christmas rush begins, as we indulge in a festive feast and become utterly engrossed in the football games. 

My wish is that we can remind ourselves of our blessings and give thanks for them and to also give thanks for the friends, family, and acquaintances that make our lives meaningful. 

-- Bob Doan, Odenton, MD

Colder and Colder

 

Apparently there is a cold Polar Vortex preparing to visit the United States compliments of our northern neighbors. 

I found a forecast map for the next 8-14 Days and it looks cold, well except for South Florida. But I am not going to be in South Florida. Maryland does not seem to be too much below normal, but it will still be cold. 

Out the Windshield--Perfect Driving Day
Somewhere in Virginia
November 24, 2025

I reflected upon the drive north that concluded yesterday. Chris and I were blessed with perfect weather. Mostly blue skies with the exception of some light fog in northern Florida as dawn was breaking.

We passed a few accidents during the two-day drive. Two of them, however, we found very disturbing. Both involved  trucks that had managed to overturn and end up pointing opposite of the direction of travel. One was a box truck that was in the median and had spilled its fully loaded contents all over the highway as it overturned and skidded to a stop. The more disturbing one was a cement mixer that had, for an unknown reason, apparently dropped a tire off the road surface, I saw the town up grass and mud, and the driver overcorrected causing the front to slow quickly while the back continued around and spilled wet concrete onto the highway. That was going to be a difficult clean-up.

Well, we are here for Thanksgiving! Yay. And to visit with family and friends. Despite the weather, it will be warm in our houses and hearts. 

-- Bob Doan, Odenton, MD

Joining the Celebration

Christmas Decorations
Tequesta, FL
November 18, 2025 

The Christmas season is definitely arriving early this year and Chris and I are contributing to the travesty. We completed, mostly, decorating the house yesterday. Remember I wrote about 12 containers of Christmas decorations? I was wrong! We returned to the storage room yesterday to find the missing 13th container. I had not labeled it as Christmas and we had some significant items missing. The missing container was located and retrieved allowing us to complete Christmasfying (read the Urban Dictionary definition, you will laugh) the condo. 

Christmas Palms
Tequesta, FL
November 18, 2025

Last evening, we arrived at our favorite watering hole as the Christmas decorations were being hung. It was very festive and fun to watch the tiki hut being transformed into a holiday paradise. I don't remember the decorations being so grand last year.

We enjoyed another beautiful evening in an unnumbered string of beautiful South Florida evenings. I know why the Snow Birds return at this time of year; it is because the weather is so enjoyable. The oppressive heat and humidity of the summer has departed; being replaced by the moderate days we have been enjoying.

As the decorations were being completed, the Christmas Palms at the entrance of the marina where Tiki52 is located made me smile. 

I started rewriting a familiar Christmas carol in my mind.

O Christmas Palm, O Christmas Palm,
How lovely are your palm fronds!
O Christmas Palm, O Christmas Palm,
How lovely are your palm fronds!
Not only green in summer’s heat,
But also winter’s rain and heat.
O Christmas palm, O Christmas palm,
How lovely are your palm fronds!

OK, I'm not sure it really works!

-- Bob Doan, Tequesta, FL 

Getting out before the cold

Pelican in the Sunlight
DuBoise Park, Jupiter, FL
November 10, 2025

Veterans Day 2025

 Bathed in bright sunshine, the cold, 43 degree, weather arrived this morning. I felt like I was back in Maryland. At least it will warm to 67 today and we will be enjoying 80s by the end of the week. The joys of South Florida. 

I managed a shortened 14-mile ride yesterday morning. The winds were getting strong and I just wasn't feeling the ride and so I lopped off some of my usual route. 

But for the afternoon, Chris and I decided to walk along the Jupiter Inlet in the sun. The breeze remained strong but the ocean was flat. We enjoyed the birds and the fishes as we strolled along. I was amazed at the speed of the current and we witnessed the Jupiter Marine Police rescuing two kayakers who got caught in the current and were about to be swept out of the inlet and into the ocean. 

It is Veterans Day. To all of my fellow veterans, I wish you all the best and send a thank-you for your service. I am constantly reminded of our oath to "support and defend the Constitution against all enemies, foreign and domestic". 

-- Bob Doan, Tequesta, FL

Halloween is in the air, but the traveling public may not be

Skeleton and the Witch
Tequesta, FL
October 7, 2025

 The Halloween season is evident in the decorations around the places that I ride my bike. I have always been impressed with the Halloween displays in the neighborhoods. There is one that I actually look for and it was there yesterday as I completed my 18-mile ride around Tequesta.  

I was able to get my ride in before the afternoon storms. Although they were not particularly strong, I don't like riding in the rain.

Cooler daytime highs are expected starting tomorrow. Yay. It isn't much, but a less humid 84 is significantly cooler than a humid 87.

Day 8 Partial Government Shutdown

Does anyone else find it tragic that the only way the republicans seem to be able to negotiate is by threatening to hurt scores of people? The idea of not paying furloughed federal workers, despite a federal law to there contrary, is but one example.

And then there is the Attorney General. Her testimony yesterday was an embarrassment. I heard a lot of it and she actually threatened Senators with investigations rather than answer questions. Case in point was her allegation of campaign irregularities against Senator White House.  

Seems as if the Air Traffic Controllers are going to take matters into their hands again. If Congress can't fly home, maybe they will negotiate.

-- Bob Doan, Tequesta, FL

And Now, the 5th

Fireworks over the ICW
Tequesta, FL
July 4, 2025

 It was a bang-up 4th. 

The expected multitude of thunderstorms never fully materialized, thankfully. 

We enjoyed a great party with friends and new acquaintances.

After the party, Chris and I returned home and I walked out to watch the fireworks in the neighborhood. We get some sophisticated displays. 

And so now, it is the 5th. It is also the second day of a three-day weekend, although I know a lot of people who made it a four-day affair. 

We do not have any plans at this point, which allows for multiple opportunities, thunderstorms notwithstanding. 

Enjoy the weekend. 

I was reminded that today marks the first day of the 250th year of our country! We are going to celebrate the formation of these United States for the entire coming year!

-- Bob Doan, Tequesta, FL

 

Independence Day - 2025

Happy Independence Day

I read something this morning that reminded me about the importance of Independence Day. It was from my Congressman, with whom I have had many disagreements, who is a decorated veteran and whose personal sacrifice in the service of our great nation I deeply respect.

Brian Mast wrote in an email this morning:

On Independence Day, I’m reminded of the unalienable rights our Founding Fathers declared for the American people: the right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Our nation was built on the unshakable belief in freedom, a belief that still rings true today.

Even in times of division, it’s important to remember what unites us. We are a people who have always defended our homeland and believed in the promise that anyone—regardless of their background—can rise and succeed through hard work and determination.

That’s only made possible because of our freedom. And that freedom is never guaranteed—it must be protected and preserved by each generation. From our founding to today, brave men and women have always stepped forward to defend the ideals we now celebrate. As we gather with friends and family, watch fireworks, and enjoy the many blessings of our great nation, let’s also take this moment to honor those who laid down their lives for our freedom.

May we continue striving toward a more perfect union, may we be grateful for our freedom, and may God always bless the United States of America!   (Brian Mast, United States Congressman)

Well written Congressman and thanks for reminding me.

-- Bob Doan, Tequesta, FL

Friday-eve and Summer

Summer Begins Tomorrow

Remember Juneteenth

 Thursday has come rolling in announcing that tomorrow is Friday! What a calling, announcing that the weekend is near. 

Even though I am retired, I still like to think of Thursday as Friday-eve, especially on a morning like today when it is raining and I probably will not get my mood-altering bike ride accomplished. 

Today, however, Thursday is not just Friday-eve. No, it is also Summer-eve. Yes, for those who have lost track of the seasons, Summer begins tomorrow! Yay!

For the next three months we are set to enjoy long days, hot nights, and hopefully, sunshine. Maybe some boating, travel, and excitement. 

-- Bob Doan, Tequesta, FL

Happy Flag Day 2025

 Happy Flag Day

What a Flag Day it is!

Aside from the craziness in DC, the entire country is turning out for this year's Flag Day it seems. 

I remember the day as an opportunity to celebrate the country and our flag. 

It is fitting that Americans are also taking today to protest the actions of the Executive Branch which violate our inherent rights and the rights of others. It is our right under the First Amendment to the Constitution so to do!

Celebrate being an American and our freedom.

O, yes we are home!

-- Bob Doan, Tequesta, FL

Memorial Day Weekend 2025

 

Memorial Day is tomorrow and the unofficial start of Summer has arrived. 

Chris and I are laying low this holiday weekend. We are going to finish the month of May without traveling anywhere. That has allowed us to recharge in preparation for the summer season. We will be heading off to Maryland during early June to visit family. 

This weekend we remember and honor those who "gave the last full measure of devotion" for our country and our way of life.

I quote the final portion of Lincoln's Gettysburg Address as a thought for today:

It is for us the living, rather, to be dedicated here to the unfinished work which they who fought here have thus far so nobly advanced. It is rather for us to be here dedicated to the great task remaining before us—that from these honored dead we take increased devotion to that cause for which they gave the last full measure of devotion—that we here highly resolve that these dead shall not have died in vain—that this nation, under God, shall have a new birth of freedom—and that government of the people, by the people, for the people, shall not perish from the earth.

and finally:

“Freedom is never more than one generation away from extinction. We didn't pass it to our children in the bloodstream. It must be fought for, protected, and handed on for them to do the same, or one day we will spend our sunset years telling our children and our children's children what it was once like in the United States where men were free.”

-- Ronald Reagan

-- Bob Doan, Tequesta, FL  

Mother's Day 2025

 Mother's Day 2025

Sidney J. (Fairbanks) Doan 
Columbia, MD
August 16, 2013

It is a blessing that we can take a day to celebrate mothers. In the human experience, having a mother is something we all share. Sometimes the mother we celebrate may not be our biological mother, but to whom we choose to ascribe the title "mother" is, perhaps, the most honorable and important title in all of humanity.  

Today I honor all moms: my mom, my wife, my daughter, my daughters-in-law, and every woman who is a mom. 

Thanks for the love, toil, work, and dedication being a mom requires. You are the keepers of society and future generations.

Today, however, I especially remember, my mom. She passed during December 2021, but she is still very present with both Chris and me. One of the ways she is present is her maiden name. We often bike through a golf community and some of the streets are simply named Fairway with a direction (N, NE, E, SE, etc.). Her maiden name was Fairbanks and the similarity is enough to remind us of her every time we bike the Fairway streets. But more than that, both Chris and I refer to her often and the blessing that she was watching us progress from a couple of love-struck high school kids into who we are today. 

And even today my mom remains a blessing to my entire family for her strength, grace, and wisdom. 

Thanks for being my mom and the embodiment of love.

1 Cor 13:4-8a. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.

-- Bob Doan, Tequesta, FL

Happy Easter 2025

 Easter has arrived. 

Here is praying you have a blessed day. 

Chris and I continue our visit to see Dad. We spent a couple hours with him yesterday at his residence. We enjoyed meeting some of his table mates while enjoying lunch. Yes, they have assigned seating. It was a very enjoyable visit. 

Today the Easter celebration continues and we will retrieve Dad early this afternoon for some family enjoyment.

 

Happy Easter to all.

-- Bob Doan, Weston Lakes, TX

Good Friday Celebration

Dad
Grand Marshall of the Easter Egg Hunt
Weston Lakes, TX
April 18, 2025

Good Friday is not normally a celebratory day. It is more usually a day of remorse and reflection.

Yesterday, however, we celebrated and enjoyed an Easter Egg hunt while spending time with my Dad, whom I have not seen in over a year. He was in good spirits when we retrieved him from his residence and we spent the day interacting with some of our Texas family. 

Preston and Eva
After the Egg Hunt
Weston Lakes, TX
April 18, 2025

We spent a long day enjoying the sounds of children and watching them play. I even got to play catch with a football. Since I didn't bring my baseball glove, and there aren't any other lefties in the family, we couldn't play catch with a baseball--my preferred sports ball. 

It was relaxing and enjoyable to watch the kids play while catching up with the adults. 

It was also nice to focus on family and take some respite from the news of the day. 

-- Bob Doan, Weston Lakes, TX

Arriving Houston

Passenger Pick-up Terminal C
George Bush Intercontinental, Houston, TX
April 17, 2025

 When Chris and I journey to Houston, we mostly fly into Houston Hobby, not George Bush Intercontinental (IAH). It was quite an experience landing at IAH last evening. I have to confess, I have never been as confused about where to go trying to leave an airport before and that includes some really complicated airports like Rome. As we headed to baggage to meet our ride we were confronted with a myriad of avenues through which to exit. There was the taxi stand door, the limo and paid rider pick-up door and later we were advised of the passenger pick-up door, which was a bit hidden. Weren't we all passengers? 

I picked the wrong exit first. We wound up where the Lift and Uber drivers along with limos pick up passengers. Walking around the corner we happened upon the taxi stand. But finding where normal people get rides from family was nowhere in sight. Calling Pennie, my sister who was trying to find us as we were trying to find her, she told me to head back inside and exit through the portal marked Passenger Pick-up. 

We found it. 

They found us!

It was a miracle and then after slogging through grid-locked airport traffic for another what seemed like 20 minutes we were on the road. 

And so the Easter holiday begins. I believe today will be devoted to an egg hunt. We will retrieve Dad from his residence so he can enjoy the fun with most of his Texas great-grandchildren. 

-- Bob Doan, Weston Lakes, TX

St Patrick's Day Bash

Chris and I Celebrating
Tequesta, FL
March 17, 2025

 One of the benefits we enjoy by living across the street from an Irish restaurant is the St Patrick's Day celebration. Every year they close down part of the parking lot and celebrate the patron saint of Ireland--yesterday was no exception. 

Scene in the Irish Bar
Tequesta, FL
March 17, 2025

It is great because we can walk over to the event and do not need to find a place to park. Yesterday, we took Finn with us, but soon decided that he was a tripping hazard and he was not enjoying being held and so we walked him home and then walked back to enjoy some adult beverages. It is nice living so close.

Everyone seemed joyful and reveled in forgetting about the problems of the world for a while and just celebrating together. I was happy not to hear any talk of politics or the news. 

We left the celebration fairly early and returned home, but we very much enjoyed our time there.

-- Bob Doan, Tequesta, FL

A Challenger for Punxsutawney Phil

 Like most Americans, I was not happy last week when Punxsutawney Phil made his, accurate only about 35 percent of the time, weather prediction for six more weeks of winter. 

Ugh. Who wants that?

Here in South Florida that prediction should mean highs in the 50s-60s accompanied by a cold depressing rain. 

A friend sent me an alternate weather prognosticator to replace my reliance on Phil. 

I love it!

The Palm Tree!

On every February 2nd, I can now go to my Tequesta Palm and receive a personal weather prognostication. It has to be at least as accurate as Phil with the added benefit that I do not need to read the mystical woodchuck language to decipher the forecast. 

Of course I have to keep secret the location of the weather forecasting palm tree--I would not want people to gather en masse heavily attired to await the prediction while consuming excessive quantities of coffee and hot chocolate. The weather palm prefers that people enjoy a cold drink in their hand while attired in beachwear enjoying the bright, hot sun on a sandy beach.

-- Bob Doan, Tequesta, FL